Showing posts with label ethiopia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ethiopia. Show all posts

Friday, July 15, 2011

Want to Know What's Going on in Ethiopia & the Adoption Slowdown?


Jamie Dean @WORLD Magazine does a good job of explaining the cause of the slowdown in Ethiopia for American's waiting to adopt. There are a lot of false information out there.Take a look at this article that came out today in World Magazine. It does a good job of explaining where things stand and how they got there. It also addresses the lack of facts to back up the corruption rumors. Tell me what you think! 
www.worldmag.com
WORLD Magazine | Life or death | With international adoptions harder and harder to process and a slowdown in Ethiopia, the second-largest source of hope for American parents wanting to adopt overseas, the outcome can be heartbreak, or worse | Jamie Dean | Jul 30 11 | 

Monday, September 27, 2010

My imagination keeps getting away from me.

My little niece Lucy has a birthday tomorrow! [She's the little blond one on the left]. I had fun getting this make-believe lover a sparkly, twirly ballerina skirt today to pop in the mail.  Before finding this newest dress-up accessory, I scouted out Target looking for something to do with mermaids, because Lucy keeps telling her mommy [that's my sister Brittany holding her in the picture] that she wants to grow up and be a mermaid.  I have to agree.  I too would love to grow up into a mermaid.  Alas while I failed to procure mermaid-like attire, I began to wonder what kinds of children's clothing I'll be getting next fall.  Will it be Batman PJs, or wispy skirts with sparkles?

It's surreal not to know the age or sex of the children Scott and I will start a family with sometime soon. We've passed our adoption homestudy and our next move is to complete the paper work going to Ethiopia, and get on a waiting list.  Once on the waiting list, we will wait to get a referral for one or two children under the age of 5.  The category seems so vast today. If one of the children is four years old at the time of referral, we could be starting school next fall. And if one of the children is 6 months old, we could be heavily investing in diapers for years to come.

Having 6 nieces and nephews to watch grow, play and celebrate birthdays with has both prepared us and excited us about the prospect of becoming parents to children of all ages.  As we continue to pray for God to guide us in our path to adopt, and as the time goes closer to when we may be bringing home children, my imagination grows.  I look at girl's hair styles and wonder how curly our children's hair will be.  And randomly I'll think 'Is it still too early to buy a swing for our backyard?'  It's all silly, but it's now a well-trod bunny trail that my mind keeps taking.  And day by day, it seems less strange that children -- age unknown -- will be living with us soon. 

How is it that my heart and, by extension, my imagination can feel attached to children I've never seen, and know nothing about? I can only think of it as a grace. A grace straight from the hand of God.  What a beautiful way for God to prepare my heart for our children through imagination.  It is a wonder.  

Monday, August 16, 2010

Visiting Orphans in Their Distress -- Zeway, Ethiopia


Watch this moving video and check out my sister Heather's trip to Zeway, Ethiopia to visit the orphans that her group -- Hope in Zeway -- provide food, clothing, shelter and a social worker for. These children don't have parents, but often take care of their siblings. A number of the children her group visited last month are about to loose a parent, and become orphans.


I love the quote that inspires my sister's group: 

"Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. -- James 1:27

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Together for Adoption in Austin, TX Oct 1-2



Photo by Esther Havens
If you're interested in adopting sometime down the road, 
already in process or already have adopted domestically 
or internationally, I hope to see you the Together for Adoption 
national conference October 1-2, 2010 in Austin, Texas.  At 
the conference, come visit me at the A Glimmer of Hope 
non-profit table in the Expo section! Also check out 
photographers Esther Havens and Kristin Laughlin at the 
conference -- both of these photographers have traveled 
with Glimmer in Ethiopia to document its projects and the 
women, children and communities that benefit.
Together For Adoption Conference 
Austin, Texas  
October 1-2, 2010                                   
Hill Country Bible Church  

Thursday, July 29, 2010

EthiopiaKids.com!! It's a sweet blog!

Need a new fun Ethiopian blog to add to your blog roll? Check out Ethiopia Kids -- it's a blog set up by Anne & Tom who adopted from Ethiopia, and it's a great resource for adoptive families, including information on funding adoption, Ethiopian culture and ways to give back to Ethiopia, and other stories from adoptive families.  Anne & Tom also have an active Facebook page with over 800 fans!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

A Glimmer of Hope -- A Game Changing Strategy

Have you noticed the growing number of creative non-profits changing the face of how we go about helping the poor? As a generation X-er, I am thrilled! In the 80s, we saw western money dumped on Africa and not doing much good, because it slapped band-aides on the deeper problems. I'm ecstatic to see creative thinkers like Philip and Donna Berber think outside the box. The Berbers founded A Glimmer of Hope, and they're showing us a peek into how a game changing strategy can change lives in Ethiopia for the long haul.

Three weeks ago, I started a new job at Glimmer because of its strategy, it's powerhouse team and its work to lift women and children in Ethiopia out of poverty. As a soon-to-be adoptive mom with a child from Ethiopia -- you can see the attraction. With any non-profit, I want to see where my money goes, and with A Glimmer of Hope that's the best surprise! 100% goes to the project!  The Berbers cover 100% of the non-profit's overhead expenses, so that donors money goes directly to building school rooms, health clinics, water wells and providing micro-finance loans in rural Ethiopia.

Plus, their projects "partner" with the local leaders in rural Ethiopian villages, instead of telling them what to do.  Glimmer's long-term goal to fight poverty in Ethiopia means maintaining the dignity of the people and it's a game changer for the quality of life of women and children.  For example, this year Glimmer will provide clean water to thousands by building 900 water wells in rural Ethiopia. Dirty water is the number one killer of children in the world -- about four million children under five die from just one water-borne disease.  In 2009, Barron's listed Glimmer founders as the 6th most effective givers in the nation, (The Best 25 Givers, Nov.30, 2009).  For adoptive families and donors interested in changes lives in Ethiopia, the Glimmer strategy makes sense when you're looking for the biggest bang for your buck.

Similarly, the ABBA Fund strategy empowers adoptive families to adopt by providing 0% interest loans to adoptive families.  International adoption is expensive, but ABBA's interest-free loans is opening opportunities for all of us. These kinds of inventive funding tools and long term strategies are changing the face of the donor world, and I expect will take off like wild fire.   

While the poor may always be with us, I hope we'll continue to learn to love them better by treating them like people made in the image of God, instead of the faceless masses.  Let hope grow.  Let us love better.    

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Want to Run a Half or Full Marathon!? Choose the CHOSEN Marathon

Hey Runners, WannaBe Runners & Friends of Runners! Scott and I are forming a Holder Team to run in the New Braunfels' Chosen: Marathon for Adoption on October 23, 2010. All proceeds of the marathon will benefit orphans!  And if you join our team for this race, 100 % of your registration fees will go towards the cost of our Ethiopian adoption! YEAH!

When registering just put that you want to be on the "Scott & Courtney Holder" team.

Right now, you have plenty of time to start training!!  The course starts in Gruene and finishes at the Guadalupe River.  It's also a Boston qualifing marathon. Go to the links below to find out more about the race.




Tuesday, March 16, 2010

The Beginning -- March 16, 2010

Scott and I began the process of adopting one or two children from Ethiopia February 25, 2010.

We began talking about adopting while we were dating, and have strongly believed it would be apart of growing our family. But like most things that hang out in the vague future -- while we planned for it at some point, it escalated from some vague future event to something we were signing up for in under a month. We're thrilled! But not ready to tell people just yet. Instead I'm starting this blog to write down the process so that we can share all the details with family and friends when we feel the time is right.

Before us is all the paper work, the long wait and the high cost associated with international adoption. With 44 Million orphans in the world it would seem a simple process to adopt, but like most valuable things in life a long wait and a little pain is all part of the deal.

Today Scott went to get his physical, and tomorrow I go to get mine. The adoption application is a beast of things to sign, forms to fill out and paperwork to prove that you're alive, kicking and going to be a good parent.

We're going through an adoption agency out of Fort Worth, Texas called Gladney adoption agency. After our minds were bleeding with information from calls, Internet research and packets of materials from most of the big, long-standing adoption agencies involved in international adoption in the United States, we decided to go with the sure thing. And to us, the sure thing was Gladney. For the last three years, my sister Heather and her husband Chris has been inundating my family with Gladney praise since bringing home their son Zane from Ethiopia. Why mess with something that good -- Right? At least that's what we're thinking.

Scott and I hope to get a sibling group of two Ethiopian children. We think this is where God's heart is drawing us, and we've taken the first step. We have no idea how we'll get there in the end. What does G K Chesterton say...'necessity is the mother of invention'?

Well, we've made the plunge. The adventure has begun. We would appreciate your prayers.